Lessons from the ‘Rona

“Stay safe and sane!” 

     I have started to put this little phrase at the end of just about all of my correspondence and texts these days.  As we enter into the seventh month of this pandemic, I finding that I’m experiencing different stresses than I was at the beginning. For example, I used to be really intrigued by the utility and novelty of a Zoom video conference. Now I see them merely as a necessary evil for conducting essential business. The same goes for social media. I had a little fun with livestreaming at the beginning, but over time I’ve experienced just how painful it is to celebrate Mass in an empty church. I miss you all very dearly.

Thankfully, that is changing next week as we gather inside the church for the first time since March 8th, albeit at 50% capacity, or as much as social distancing will allow. I can’t wait!

Looking back over the past six months, I must admit that I’ve learned a few things from the ‘Rona. Here are just a few of them.

I’ve learned that uncertainty and instability, whether it’s in the regulatory environment, the economy, or even the fact that there might not be basic items at the grocery store, is very frustrating.  I’ve also learned that it’s important to find healthy ways to deal with that frustration so that I don’t take it out on others who don’t deserve it. I’ve learned that prayer and exercise, especially outdoors, help a lot with this.

I’ve learned that it is really difficult to tell a person’s expression while he or she is wearing a face covering. I’ve also learned that there are certain people who know how to smile with their eyes. I’m trying to learn how to do this myself. I’ve also learned that the eyes truly are the windows to the soul. I find myself looking people in the eye more these days.

I’ve learned that the pandemic, especially the isolation part, is particularly hard on those who feel they are nearing the end of life. I’ve also learned what a difference a simple phone call can make to a loved one.  I find myself listening to my elders more.

I’ve learned that the convenience and utility of videoconferencing and livestreaming, etc., as good as it is, simply doesn’t compare to personal, physical interaction with family, friends and fellow parishioners. I’ve also learned that virtual family gatherings pretty much run out of conversation after the first half hour.

Finally, I’ve learned how much people love their Lord and their parish. I’ve also seen how in the midst of adversity and uncertainty, people find amazingly creative ways to support one another in faith.

So, stay safe and sane, People of God. Let’s keep looking out for each other and keeping each other in prayer.               – Fr. Leo